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I DON’T AGREE WITH THE STATEMENT “DON’T GET MAD.” – My Thoughts About The Upside of Feeling Down & Currently Playing Movies About Spectacular Achievements That Resulted from Hard Work Motivated by Getting Mad – by Gary S. Smolker

I DON’T AGREE WITH THE STATEMENT, “DON’T GET MAD.”

On Valentine’s day (February 14, 2015) a friend sent me (via e-mail) the following quote:

“Don’t get mad.  Don’t get even.  Get stronger and faster and more powerful.  Fill yourself with knowledge and empathy and an indomitable spirit.  Because no one else can do that for you.  In the end, its your life, your choice and your world.  Give 110% always.”  – Apolo Ohno, American Speed skater

I replied:

Thanks for sending me the quote.

That quote (copy above) is quite stimulating.

I disagree with the statement, “Don’t get mad.”

I am currently writing an article currently called something like THOUGHT ABOUT THE UPSIDE OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS.

In that article I will mention that Martin Luther King, Jr. was so mad at the way black people were treated that he changed the world as a result of his actions as a civil rights leader.

Getting mad at injustice is a very natural thing that can have tremendous beneficial results for you personally, the rest of your country, and the rest of the world – – especially when getting mad motivates you (or someone else) to take action that results in bringing about positive change.

Why do you think President Harry Truman signed the order integrating the U.S. military forces in 1948?

President Truman integrated the military forces of the United States because President Truman was appalled at the way black soldiers who had fought for their country in World War II were being treated when they returned home to the United States.

He was mad.

Gary

Anger Motivates A Person to Take Action

Anger fuels social progress.

When you are mad you get a boost of energy – you are like a volcano ready to erupt.

Negative Emotions Are Critical to Success

To make their own lives more satisfying and to make this a better and more just world and to endure its challenges leaders have found it necessary to wisely engage their full range of negative emotions.

For example, anger stimulated and has sustained leaders of the civil rights and gender equality movements.

President Harry Truman’s Moral Clarity

When Harry Truman became president in April 1945, African-Americans might have had reason to fear setbacks because President Truman had grown up knowing few black people in Missouri, where all of his grandparents had owned slaves.

But, having been an officer in World War I, President Truman had respect for anyone who served his country in uniform.

During the demobilization of the military after World War II, President Truman was appalled to hear that African-American veterans were being brutally treated when they returned.

That made him angry.

That made President Truman so angry that in 1947, President Truman gave the first address by a president to the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People since its founding in 1909.

In his speech, President Truman proposed anti-lynching legislation, the abolition of poll taxes that discouraged voting and an end to job discrimination.

At that time the lynching of black Americans in the South was widespread and very few, if any, black Americans were allowed to vote in the South.

In his speech President Truman linked the battle to advance those rights at home to the Cold War.

In his speech President Truman said, “Our case for democracy should be as strong as we can make it.  It should rest on practical evidence that we have been able to put our own house in order.”

President Truman then turned to the president of the NAACP and told him, “I mean every word of it [the speech he had just given], and I’m going to prove it.”

Thereafter, President Truman sent a series of measures to Congress to combat this, and when they didn’t pass, he, in his capacity as commander-in-chief, in 1948 issued orders which desegregated the armed forces and the civil service and another order in 1951 that banned discrimination in defense contracting.

Truman’s legislative initiatives to improve civil rights did not get through Congress, but he ignited a national debate that brought minority protection closer to reality.

Martin Luther King, Jr.’s Audacity of Hope, Dr. King’s Dream, the Spectacle of Bloody Sunday and the Birth of the Voting Rights Act of 1965

Selma, Alabama, is the county seat of Dallas County.

The region was one of the capitals of American slavery, and long after the Civil War the area retained a black majority.

However, in 1964 only a handful of the county’s black residents could vote.  Whites controlled all 10 county commissions, 11 boards of education and 34 town governments.  Every judge was white, there were few black lawyers, and black residents were generally not allowed into the courthouse except to pay taxes.

White terrorists operated with the implicit sanction of both private and public authority.

In 1964 a locally grounded voting rights campaign began.

Dr. King decided to participate.  Soon after he arrived in Selma, he was arrested along with several thousand other protestors for parading without a permit and unlawful assembly.

While in jail in February 1965, King wrote a letter to the New York Times stating, “This is Selma, Alabama.  There are more Negroes in jail with me than there are on the voting rolls.”

After a 27-year-old black pulpwood cutter, was shot by troopers when he tried to protect his mother from the clubs of troopers breaking up a night vigil, young activists threatened to carry his dead body to Montgomery and present it to Governor George Wallace.

Local leaders converted the angry sentiments into a plan to walk to Montgomery from Selma to petition Wallace for the right to vote.

On a Sunday, in full view of TV cameras, those marchers (600 demonstrators demanding equal access to the voting booth) assembled on the outskirts of Selma.

As they approached the Edmund Pettus Bridge, which had been blocked by Alabama state troopers and white civilian volunteers deputized by Sheriff Clark, they were clubbed and whipped and tear gassed and chased off the bridge by State troopers and local police using electric cattle prods and bull whips.

Widespread public outrage erupted after video clips were shown on national TV.

What happened next?

President Johnson told a joint session of Congress:

“What happened in Selma is part of a far larger movement which reaches into every section and state of America.

“It is the effort of American Negroes to secure for themselves the full blessings of American life.  Their cause must be our cause too, because it is not just Negroes but really all of us who must overcome the crippling legacy of bigotry and injustice.  And we shall overcome.”

President Johnson immediately proceeded to introduce voting legislation that King had pleaded for privately, and announced his plan of action in a joint session of Congress.

President Johnson placed Selma alongside Lexington and Concord and Appomattox as turning points where “history and fate meet at a single time in a single place” to shape our “unending search for freedom.”

Speaking “as a man whose roots go deeply into Southern soil,” Johnson told Congress: “There is no Negro problem.  There is no Southern problem.  There is no Northern problem.  There is only an American problem.”

Johnson told Congress that “the real hero of this struggle is the American Negro.”  “There cause must be our cause too.  Because it is not just Negroes, but really all of us who must overcome the crippling legacy of bigotry and injustice.  And we shall overcome.”

On August 6, Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act of 1965, providing for the registration by federal examiners in any state or county where fewer than half the adults were registered to vote.

All of the above is dramatized in the recently released movie “Selma.”

“Selma” is a reminder and wake-up call about what hatred, intolerance and oppression lead to and that the United States has gone through more than one “War of Morals.”

The movie “Selma” reminds us there is a future beyond lynchings, shootings, blood and bombs – a future that is far closer to reality now than appeared even remotely possible when 600 demonstrators demanding equal access to the voting booth assembled on the outskirts of Selma, Alabama and were clubbed and tear gassed by State troopers and local police when they tried to march across the Edmund Pettus Bridge.

For all of the above reasons, “Selma” is a must see movie.

Looking Back

If you are wondering if recent events might be a signal of the dawn of a new baptism of liberty, equality and freedom and of the end of human bondage, consider the following historical events.

  1. On June 11, 1963, after Alabama Governor George Wallace attempt to keep two black students from enrolling at the University of Alabama was televised, that night President John F. Kennedy went immediately on the air with an improvised speech to rally support for a civil rights bill that had yet to be written. “Those who do nothing,” the president told his audience, “are inviting shame, as well as violence.  Those who act boldly are recognizing right, as well as reality.”
  2. Around 9:30 p.m. on April 3, 1968 (shortly before he was murdered), Martin Luther King, Jr., in a speech he gave at Mason Temple, a Pentecostal church where at least 1000 people had gathered to hear him speak, said:
  • “If I were standing at the beginning of time – and [I] could choose my  lifetime – I would consider the glories of ancient Greece, Egypt and Rome.
  • But I wouldn’t stop there.  If you would allow me to live just a few years in the second half of the 20th century, I will be happy.”

King chose above all to see, and did see, the stirrings of a human-rights revolution for freedom worldwide.

Alan Turing’s Frustration

Winston Churchill said Alan Turing made the single biggest contribution to Allied victory in World War II against Nazi Germany.

Turing devised a number of techniques for breaking secret encoded German Navy messages to German U-boats.

It is estimated that Turning’s work shortened the word in Europe by as many as two to four years and saved ten million lives.

Turing was able to do this because he got mad at his boss and took the unprecedented step of going above his boss’ head to get support for his work.

Turning’s boss at the Britain’s codebreaking center thought Turing was nuts and Turing’s work was worthless, took steps to destroy a computer Turing had built (Turning is considered the father of computer science) and proceeded to try to “fire” Turing.

Breaking all rules, on October 28, 1941 Turing and his crew of codebreakers wrote directly to Churchill spelling out their difficulties.

The effect was electric.  Churchill wrote a memo to General Ismael – the military man in charge of the codebreaking center – which read: “ACTION TODAY.  Make sure they have all they want on extreme priority and report to me this has been done.”  

On November 18, 1941, the chief of the British Secret Service reported to Churchill every possible measure was being taken.

All of the above is dramatically portrayed in Norwegian Director Morten Tyldum’s film “The Imitation Game.”

“The Imitation Game” is nominated for eight Academy Awards, including best picture.

“The Imitation Game” is a must see movie.

Boris Spassky’s and Bobby Fischer’s Need for Silence

Absolute concentration, mania for maintaining focus and fanatical devotion to craft are necessary if you want to achieve extraordinary success.

American Director Ed Zwick picture “Pawn Sacrifice” shows how that comes into play.

“Pawn Sacrifice” takes the audience into the minds of the USSR’s world chess champion Boris Spassky and the American challenger Bobby Fischer as it follows their actions at the 1972 World Chess Championship in Reykjavik, Iceland.

After one game, played before an audience in an auditorium, Bobby Fischer refused to play any more games against Boris Spassky in the contest for World Chess Champion unless the rest of games were played in a basement ping-pong room without a live audience and without live coverage before a multitude of motion picture and TV cameras present in the auditorium during the prior game.

Fischer explained that the noise made by the live audience coughing, etc. and cameras and cameramen filming the contest was too distracting.  He was distracted by the noise of the cameras taking motion pictures.

The noise broke his concentration, destroyed his ability to focus on and think about his next move.

Rather than win the World Championship title by accepting Bobby Fischer’s forfeit as a result of Fischer’s refusal to play chess against him, Boris Spassky agreed to have the remaining games played in a basement.

After a next game was played in the basement, and won by Fischer, Spassky accused Fischer or someone else as having sabotaged the chair in which Spassky sat – made the chair “noisy” to break Spassky’s concentration while Spassky was playing.

Spassky’s chair was x-rayed.

Nothing was wrong with Spassky’s chair.

Later, after Fischer won the match and the World Championship, two dead flies were discovered in a light fixture above the chess set.

Spassky had been distracted by the sound of flies flying in that light fixture that only he could hear.

This movie is all about their lives, it is all about focus, concentration, mental preparation, planning.

Both men thought deeply, and planned and prepared mightily before they acted.

This movie is a peak into the minds of Grand Master Chess Players.

Stephen Hawking’s Disappointment

Dr. Stephen Hawking is and always has been an extrovert.

When Dr. Hawking was a young graduate student at Cambridge he was diagnosed as having motor neuron disease.

When he leaned he had motor neuron disease he was told he only had two years to live.

He told his girl-friend Jane Wilde to “go away.”

Stephen explained to Jane that he had only two more years to live and that he would lose his physical abilities over that time.

Jane replied: “Then lets enjoy all of those remaining moments of your life together.  I can’t go away because I love you.”

After that, Stephen Hawking didn’t let the facts that he had been told he only had two years to live and that he would lose all motor function get him down.

  1. He (Stephen Hawking) married her (Jane Wilde) while he was still a young graduate student at Cambridge.
  2. He (Stephen Hawking) went on to earn and received a Ph.D. in Theoretical Physics and became a member of the world renown faculty at Cambridge University.
  3. While earning his Ph.D. degree and afterwards, Dr. Hawking formulated/created breath-taking theories about the universe.
  4. When he lost control of his vocal cords he learned how, through a teacher arranged for him by his wife Jane, to communicate by raising his eye brow when he was shown a letter of a word he wanted to speak on a board.
  5. Later, a machine was invented (designed and built by third persons though the efforts of his wife) which converted Dr. Hawking’s “spelling” into speech.
  6. Although Professor Hawking couldn’t speak (because he eventually couldn’t control his vocal cords) he dictated a book (“A Brief History of Time”), which sold over 10 million copies.
  7. Dr. Hawking and his wife Jane Wilde had three children together.
  8. When this movie was recently made, Professor Stephen Hawking was over 70 years old.
  9. Professor Stephen Hawking is still alive.

Norwegian Director Morten Tyldum’s film “The Theory of Everything” accurately and dramatically portrays all of the above.

“The Theory of Everything” is nominated for five Academy Awards, including best picture.

“The Theory of Everything” is a must see movie.

Cheryl Strayed’s Self-Loathing

Cheryl Strayed hated herself for having destroyed her marriage by having random sex with strangers and being a heroine addict.

She decided to “clean” herself up by taking a solo 1,100-mile-hike along the Pacific Crest Trail.

It worked: She stopped being an addict, fell in love with a new man who became her husband and had children with him.

Chris Strayed’s life story is dramatically portrayed in Jean-Marc Vallee’s film “Wild” and is nominated for several Academy Awards.

“Wild” is a must see movie.

Chris Kyle’s Anger

Chris Kyle saw the Twin Towers in New York fall down on September 11 after terrorists fly hi-jacked airplanes into them.

That made Chris Kyle so mad that he joined the United States Navy.

Although he was 30 years old, he tried out for the Navy Seals.

The rest is history: Chris Kyle became the deadliest sniper in American history.

In that role Mr. Kyle saved the lives of countless  American serviceman in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Mr. Kyle’s real life story is accurately and dramatically portrayed in Clint Eastwood’s film “American Sniper.”

“American Sniper” is a must see movie.

It has been nominated for six Academy Awards, including best picture.

Currently Playing Movies That Teach Good Behavior

WINNING TAKES MORE THAN JUST PUNCHING.

Winning Takes Adaptability, Advance Work, A High Energy Level, A Sense of Purpose, Authenticity, Being Alert At All Times, Courage, Curiosity, Creativity, Determination, Discipline, Drive, Endurance, Fortitude, Flexibility, Grit, Particular Personality Traits, Preparation, Seriousness, Being Teachable, Hard Work and Training to go the distance as portrayed by NORWEGIAN DIRECTOR MORTEN TYLDUM in “The Imitation Game”, portrayed by ENGLISH DIRECTOR JAMES MARSH in “The Theory of Everything”, portrayed by AMERICAN DIRECTOR and COMEDIAN CHRIS ROCK in “Top Five”, portrayed by AMERICAN DIRECTOR DAMIEN CHAZELLE in “Whiplash”, by AMERICAN DIRECTOR ED ZWICK in “Pawn Sacrifice”, portrayed by AMERICAN DIRECTOR AVA DUVERNAY in “Selma”, portrayed by AMERICAN DIRECTOR CLINT EASTWOOD in “American Sniper”, by CANADIAN DIRECTOR PHILLIPPE FALARDEAU in “The Good Lie”, and by CANADIAN DIRECTOR JEAN-MARC VALLEE in “Wild.”

A Quick Read

Over the past 50 years I’ve read books and articles on “the science and psychology of becoming a success.”

For a quick read on those topics, I recommend that you read all the articles in the Winter 2015 issue of SCIENTIFIC AMERICAN and the article on “emotions” in the January/February 2015 issue of PSYCHOLOGY TODAY which confirm what I’ve read elsewhere about what it takes to be an outstanding success.

These articles confirm, as indicated in the movies listed above, that there is no shortcut to success.

You have to put in time, effort and sweat equity.

Successful people have a long attention span, the ability to concentrate, the ability to be attentive, a passion for what they are doing, fanatical devotion to their craft, their motivation is internalized.  They care about what they are doing for its own sake.

They look at disappointments and setbacks as opportunities to learn and as challenges.

Being born a creative genius or with an enormous talent is not enough to produce an outstanding result – it takes a village to produce an outstanding result.

All students need a combination of the right teacher or coach, the right guidance, challenge, the right instruction and feed-back and never-ending practice or study.

In addition to other traits, highly successful people have a positive attitude, a fierce drive, passion and grit; they are persistent, they have the ability to focus, and they have mental toughness, optimism and emotional control.

Excellence is about grappling with tasks beyond current limitations and falling short again and again.

Excellence is about stepping outside the comfort zone, training with a spirit of endeavor, and accepting the inevitability of trials and tribulations.

Highly successful people are motivated individuals who don’t give up when something goes wrong.

Their progress and success is built, in effect, upon the foundation of taking risks and the necessary failures that follow.  That is the paradox of their outstanding successful performance.

A Personal Note

I try to have strong personal relationships with people who give me emotional support and who are obsessed about the same things I am obsessed about.

On Valentine’s Day (February 14, 2015) a friend sent me the following note:

“Nothing worse than boredom!! Even torture is more interesting.”

The Gary Smolker Thoughtful Person Club

I’ve started a “Thoughtful Person Club.”

To join “The Gary Smolker Thoughtful Person Club” send your name and e-mail address to me via the Internet at GSmolker@aol.com.

According to WordPress, in 2014, people in 108 countries viewed the “Gary S. Smolker Idea Exchange Blog” at http://www.garysmolker.wordpress.com.

Conclusion

Negative emotions can do a critical job for you.

You only have so much time and energy and you can’t give 110% to everything.

You need priorities and that means that most activities will get 0% or slightly more of your time and energy.

Negative emotions can help you decide what to spend your time and energy on.

Every negative emotion orchestrates a complex suite of changes in motivation, physiology, attention, perceptions, beliefs and behaviors that can make you a “winner” by giving you the motivation, energy, resolve, drive, emotional strength, mental toughness, will power and fortitude necessary to complete whatever you set out to do.

Perhaps the recent actions of ISIS will prompt a worldwide reaction that will shock people out of their “do nothingism.”

Look at what ISIS burning a Jordanian pilot alive prompted the King of Jordan to do.

Look at what ISIS beheading Egyptian Coptic Christians prompted the President of Egypt to do.

When people are made to become extremely mad (outraged) it prompts them into taking action.

 

Copyright © 2015 by Gary S. Smolker

 

 

Panache, Feminism, What Women Want, How to Host A Dinner Party, How To Build the Future, Relationships and Other Topics Discussed in “How to Be Parisian Wherever You Are” and in “Zero to One” – a book report by Gary S. Smolker

Challenge

The challenge presented to you in this post is to answer the following questions.

  1. What do men need to know about women?
  2. What should fathers tell their sons about women?
  3. What should fathers tell their daughters about women?
  4. What should mothers tell their daughters about women?
  5. What is feminism?
  6. Where does feminism come from?
  7. Where is feminism going?
  8. Is there a psychology of personality?
  9. What is the strongest human drive?
  10. What is style?
  11. What is a thinking man’s well-balanced attitude towards life?
  12. What is a thinking woman’s well-balanced attitude towards life?
  13. What do people need to know about the importance of relationships in their social and business lives?
  14. What are your bad habits?
  15. How are you going to build your future?
  16. What should parents/teachers tell children/students about how to build the future?

PANACHE, ATTITUDE, THE ART OF BEING A WOMAN, BEING A BON VIVANT & FEMINISM

“How To Be A Parisian Wherever You Are” is written with verve and wit, and is spiced by wisdom and style.

It is written by four Frenchwomen (Anne Berest, Audrey Diwan, Caroline de Maigret and Sophie Mas).

It is about values, good taste, attitude, having fun, style, enjoying life as a continuing delight, and relationships.

It is about the art of living, from the point of view of four Frenchwoman who are Parisians and feminists.

According to Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie:

“Being a feminist and appreciating gallantry are not necessarily incompatible – on the contrary.  Making an effort, being attentive: it doesn’t take much and yet it makes a world of difference…When you encourage his chivalry, a man becomes more a man, a woman more a woman.

“And so its only normal that:

“He hold the door for you.

“He carry your suitcases and your shopping – a woman only ever carriers her handbag.

“He pour your wine; you should never have to touch the bottle.  It suits him – that way you’ll get drunk faster.”

THE SECRET OF MAKING A MAN KNOW YOU NEED HIM

“How To Be A Parisian Wherever You Are” is a fun read, full of good advice, humor, humorous advice and witty social commentary, examples follow, beginning with what the authors – who are quintessential Frenchwomen/feminists – Anne, Audrey, Caroline, and Sophie describe as The Art of Making A Man Believe You Need Him.

“The secret of making a man know you need him:

“Of course you can open a bottle of wine by yourself.

“But let him do it.  That’s equality too.”

GENDER EQUALITY

The Frenchwomen I know believe in gender equality.

For example, I read the following quote from “How To Be A Parisian Wherever You Are” to a female friend of mine who is a Parisienne:

“When it comes to driving, there’s only one rule the Parisienne follows: may the best driver win.

“Sometimes she’ll cut off a male driver, for the sake of gender equality; to prove that she too has balls.”

She replied:

“I have many balls.  That is probably why I can wear pants easily.

“I usually cut or race people with my car if they annoyed me or I think they had an inappropriate driving attitude to me, no matter what gender they have.”More Fun Witty and Often Wise Advice

More Fun Witty and Often Wise Advice

from Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie

 THE BATTLE OF THE SEXES

“One must live with the opposite sex, not against them.  Except when making love.”

WE ALL HAVE A LOT TO LEARN

A stunningly beautiful intelligent and witty Frenchwoman, told me, after reading the original version of this post:

“I did not know that the reason behind men pouring you wine in your glass was to make you drunk quicker.  I’ll be careful next time!!!”

BE YOURSELF

In “How To Be A Parisian Wherever You Are”, Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie quote the following statement made by Marcel Proust.

“When you work to please others you can’t succeed, but the things you do to satisfy yourself stand a chance of catching someone’s interest.” – Marcel Proust, PASTICHES ET MELANGES

I agree with the sentiment expressed by Marcel Proust in that statement.

That sentiment is dramatized in Chris Rock’s new movie “Top Five.”

In “Top Five”, the main character, albeit he is a fictional character, is true to himself, is true to who he really is.

The main character in “Top Five” doesn’t sell out to a desire to make money and/or to a desire to keep his fame.

He decides he wants to be a “serious actor” and although he is a successful comedian he goes for it.

The movie shows us what this fictional character has to (and/or might have to) give up in order to become who he wants to be.

Recently released movies, “The Theory of Everything” and “The Imitation Game”, also dramatize that theme.

Both “The Theory of Everything” and “The Imitation Game”  are about “real people.” –

“The Theory of Everything” is about Stephen Hawking.  “The Imitation Game” is about Alan Turing.

Stephen Hawking and Alan Turing never gave up being who they really are.

I believe Stephen Hawking has been fantastically successful and Alan Turing was so fantastically successful because each one of them took the time to figure out who he really is/was and what he really wants/wanted.

Each of these two movies (“The Theory of Everything” and “The Imitation Game”), in its own way, is an exceptional love story.

Each of these two movies is a positive testimony to the human spirit.

During their lifetime, while still young men, each one of these two men (Hawking and Turing) met a woman who was a unique match for him personally.

Hawking and Turing each love(d) each of these unique women with the greatest passion and sincere feelings for the rest of their lives.

These unique women, in turn, who would love them with equal passion and sincere caring for the rest of their lives.

You are invited to read my movie reviews of “Top Five”, “The Theory of Everything” and “The Imitation Game” posted on the “Gary S. Smolker Idea Exchange Blog” at http://www.garysmolker.wordpress.com.

TAKE YOUR TIME

Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie advise:

  • Take the time to ask yourself who you are and what you want.
  • Take the time to listen and to get to know yourself.
  • Take the time to change, to grow, to rest.
  • Take the time to take the time because no one else will do it for you.

I wholeheartedly agree.

THE PLACE TO GO ON A SMART DATE

In “How to Be A Parisian Wherever You Are”, in addition to giving advice and making social commentary, Anne, Audrey, Caroline, and Sophie also ask and answer important questions.

For example, they ask the very important question: Why live life halfway?

Their advice: “Cultivate your allure.”

According to Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie, the place to go on a date is:

“A painting in front of which you arrange to meet your date so that he knows your true intentions.  For example: ‘LIBERTY LEADING THE PEOPLE’ by Delacroix: a woman not afraid to show her breasts.”

Musee du Louvre, 75001 Paris

WHAT WOMEN WANT

According to Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie:

“During the reigns of Louis XIII and XIV, some women of the court created a feminist movement to fight against the prevailing misogyny of the era.  These women sought tenderness and restraint.  They wanted to hear sweet nothings whispered in their ears – to be charmed and won over with wit and grace, before being whisked off to bed.

“The writer Madeleine de Scudery was the leader of this movement.  She drew a map of an imaginary country called Tenderness.  In order to reach the city of Love, one had to pass through several small villages, each one a step toward winning the heart of one’s beloved.”

It is my experience, in the industrialized world, that women of today still want that.

HOW TO HOST A DINNER PARTY

I believe to invite people to dine with us is to make ourselves responsible for their well-being as long as they are under our roof, that includes guiding  (provoking) them to talk about interesting topics.

I believe Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie agree with that sentiment too.

In their book (“How To Be A Parisian Wherever You Are”), Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie advise that you do your utmost to avoid dinner parties with more than six guests around the table, and suggest that, if possible, you get the conversation with a controversial statement before dinner is served, provide examples of controversial topics to get the conversation flowing, suggest topics to discuss with the main course (as well as what to serve as a main course) and suggest and provide other topics to discuss with desert (as well as what to serve as desert), provide recipes for each dish and provide descriptions of games they suggest you should play together with your guests (and how to play them) after dinner.

I have my own ideas on how to dine with friends and guests.

See my (Gary S. Smolker’s) comments on dinning with friends and guests in my post entitled “The Pure Essence of the Good Life” posted on this blog (“The Gary S. Smolker Idea Exchange Blog”, at http://www.garysmolker.wordpress.com) on December 9, 2011, an excerpt of which is quoted below.

THE WAY IN WHICH MEALS ARE ENJOYED IS VERY IMPORTANT TO THE HAPPINESS OF LIFE.

If you want to experience the effect of gourmandism on happiness, I highly recommend eating a meal with someone who wishes to eat with joy who you wish to please and who wishes to please you or with a group of people who wish to please each other.

When gourmandism is shared by such people, as by eating a meal … by any … great chef  – or prepared by someone who loves you or prepared by you for someone you love – you will find it has the most marked influence, on the happiness which can be found in being with another person.

People who share the pleasure of the table have, at least on that occasion, a pleasant opportunity to be together; they have a subject of conversation which is forever new; they can talk not only of what they are eating, but also of what they have eaten, what they will eat, and what they have noticed at other tables if they are in a restaurant or cafe or bistro or bar or at a party in a private home; they can discuss fashionable dishes, new recipes, and so on and so on – whatever is on their mind.

It is well known that intimate table talk [CHITCHAT] is full of its own charm.

THE EFFECT OF GOURMANDISM ON SOCIABILITY

Quoting from “The Physiology of Taste” by Brillant-Savarin:

“Gourmandism is one of the most important influences in the social life; it gradually spreads the spirit of conviviality which brings together day-to-day differing kinds of people, melts them into a whole, animates their conversation, and softens the sharp corners of the conventional inequalities of position and breeding.

“It is gourmandism, too, which motivates the effort any host must make to take good care of his guests, as well as their own gratitude when they perceive that he has employed all his knowledge and tact to please them; and it is fitting at this very place to point out with scorn those stupid diners who gulp down in disgraceful indifference the most nobly prepared dishes, or who inhale with impious inattention the bouquet of a limpid nectar.”

General Rule: “Any preparation which springs from a high intelligence demands explicit praise, and a tactful expression of appreciation must always be made whenever it is plain that there is any attempt to please.”

 Controversial Political Statements

Anne, Audrey, Caroline and Sophie recommend that a dinner party begin with the discussion of a controversial political statement:

“If possible, get the [dinner party] conversation flowing with a controversial political statement.

– As a matter of fact, we’re witnessing a shift in the class struggle.  It’s no longer workers against employers; it’s about immigration.  And at the end of the day it’s the poor against the poor. 

– Capitalism has succeeded in its aim of making sure that the workers are no longer battling against those above them, but instead, those below them.  Marx was right all along.

– Explain to me the difference between the right and the left.

– It’s very simple!  For the right, if the individual thrives, so does society.  For the left, if society thrives, so does the individual.

Once the guests have stopped arguing and the conversation is beginning to thin, to avoid veering towards the topic of children [or the gender gap, marriage, or the Middle East, Islam, education or gun control] the hostess should suggest that everyone take their seats at the dinner table.

The portions should be generous and the table should look pretty.  Don’t forget the flowers.  Above all the cook should never appear stressed out – everything must look effortless.”



In December, 2014, after the grand juries decided not to indict the police in the Michael Brown and Eric Garner cases, Columbia Law School Interim Dean Robert Scott announced to students that Columbia Law School will permit them to postpone finals due to trauma from grand jury results and will be providing counselling sessions to handle the “traumatic effects” of the non-indictments in the Michael Brown and Eric Garner cases.

When I mentioned this to “friends” I got fantastic results.

One friend wrote to me:

“What a crock!  If I were calling the shots at Columbia Law School I would make that ‘interim’ Dean Robert Scott reign would end by sundown.  He probably has a great need to go home to his Mother and nurse his trauma.”

Another friend wrote me:

“Pathetic!  Will the gutless pandering never cease?  Culturally we have gone off the deep end and are too stupefied to scream!!”

A third friend wrote to me:

“The Michael Brown and Eric Garner cases have been horrifying – not only for the events of the cases themselves but also the aftermath and the comments of the people around me.

“I have listened to white and non-white friends alike about their thoughts.  The white friends hae shown me in a vast group to be on the side of the police and ‘the law.’

“These events which have only solidified my loss of faith in cops and the law show us the direction our country is moving in – control people with force and violence so as to not shake the powers that be.

“At least Columbia Law School is recognizing the personal trauma law students are particularly facing.  If I was a law student at this time, I would be writing essays and cases studies that try to make fun of the law, the courts, and the people who are supposed to enforce it all by poking at philosophical holes.  I doubt I would be popular with my professors; at least, I would have my sanity.

“Despite my absence, I have been keeping up with your emails as I have time to read.  I hope we can meet up soon!  Sounds like you are doing well stirring the pot of ideas and encouraging engagement and critical thinking.  I may want my own school, but you are more than ready for yours!”

ITS GOOD TO KNOW HOW TO LOOK BEYOND YOUR PRECONCEPTIONS

In “Zero to One”, Peter Thiel (co-founder of PayPal) advises:

  • “Because every innovation is new and unique, no authority can prescribe in concrete terms how to be innovative. Indeed, the single most powerful pattern I have noticed is that successful people find value in unexpected places, and they do this by thinking … [thinking  from first principles.]
  • “Brilliant thinking is rare, but courage is in ever shorter supply than genius.
  • “The most contrarian thing of all is not to oppose the crowd but to think for yourself.
  • Be so good at what it is you/your company do/does that no other firm/person can offer a close substitute.
  • Do not lose sight of competitive reality.
  • In the real world, every business is successful exactly to the extent it does something others cannot.
  • “The hazards of imitative competition may partially explain why individuals with an Asperger’s-like social ineptitude seem to be at an advantage in Silicon Valley today.  If you’re less sensitive to social cues, you’re less likely to do the same thing as everyone around you.
  • “Success is never accidental.
  • “Ralph Waldo Emerson captured this ethos when he wrote: ‘Shallow men believe in luck, believe in circumstances….Strong men believe in cause and effect.”
  • Do not overrate the power of chance and underrate the power of planning.
  • Determine the one best thing to do and then do it.
  • Strive to be great at something substantive, to be a monopoly of one.
  • Think for yourself.
  • “Statistics don’t work when the sample size is one.
  • “If you treat the future as something definite, it makes sense to understand it in advance and to work to shape it.  But if you expect an indefinite future ruled by randomness, you’ll give up on trying to master it.
  • Why should you expect to succeed [or your own business to succeed] without a plan to make it happen?
  • Make concrete plans for a better future.
  • “A business with a good definite plan will always be underrated in a world where people see the future as random.
  • You can change the world through careful planning, not by listening to focus group feedback or copying others’ success.
  • Don’t expect your business to succeed without a plan to make it happen.
  • “This extraordinary stark pattern, in which a small few radically outstrip all rivals, surrounds us everywhere in the natural and social world.
  • “It does matter what you do.  You should focus relentlessly on something you’re good at doing, but before doing that you must think hard about whether it will be valuable in the future.
  • “…total VC [Venture Capital] accounts for less than 0.2% of GDP.  But the results of those investments disproportionately propel the entire economy.  Venture-backed companies create 11% of all private sector jobs.  They generate annual revenues equivalent to an astounding 21% of GDP.  Indeed, the dozen largest tech companies were all venture-backed.  Together those 12 companies are worth more than $2 trillion, more than all other tech companies combined.”

Who Is Peter Thiel?

Here is a quote, from Peter Thiel’s book, “Zero to One”:

“The first team that I built has become known in Silicon Valley as the ‘PayPal Mafia’ because so many of my former colleagues have gone on to help each other start and invest in tech companies.  We sold PayPal to eBay for $1.5 billion in 2002.  Since then, Elon Musk ahs founded SpaceX and co-founded Tesla Motors; Reid Hoffman co-founded LinkedIn; Steve Chen, Chad Hurley and Jawed Karim together founded YouTube; Jeremy Stoppelman and Russel Simmons founded Yelp; David Sacks co-founded Yammer; and I co-founded Palantir.  Today all seven of those companies are worth more than $1 billion each.  PayPal’s office amenities never got much press, but the team has done extraordinary well, both together and individually: the culture was strong enough to transcend the original company. 

“We didn’t assemble a mafia by sorting through resumes and simply hiring the most talented people.  I had seen the mixed results of that approach firsthand when I worked at a New York law firm.  The lawyers I worked with ran a valuable business, and they were impressive individuals one by one.  But the relationships between them were oddly thin.  They spent all day together, but few of them seemed to have much to say to each other outside the office.  Why work with a group of people who don’t even like each other?  Many seem to think it’s a sacrifice necessary for making money.  But taking a merely professional view of the workplace, in which free agents check in and check out on a transactional basis, is worse than cold: it’s not even rational.  Since time is your most valuable asset, it’s odd to spend it working with people who don’t envision any long-term future together.  If you can’t count durable relationships among the fruits of your time at work, you haven’t invested your time well – even in purely financial terms.

“From the start, I wanted PayPal to be tightly knit instead of transactional.  I thought stronger relationships would make us not just happier and better at work but also more successful in our careers beyond PayPal.  So we set out to hire people who would actually enjoy working together.  They had to be talented, but even more than that they had to be excited about working specifically about working with us.  That was the start of the PayPal Mafia.”

Peter Thiel is an entrepreneur and inventor.  He started PayPal in 1998, led it as CEO, and took it public in 2002.

In 2004 he made the first outside investment in Facebook, where he serves as a director.

He has provided early funding for LinkedIn, Yelp and other technology startups.

He is a partner at Founders Fund, a venture capital firm that has funded companies like SpaceX and Airbnb.

Peter Thiel with Blake Masters is the author of “Zero to One” published in 2014.

He leads the Thiel Foundation, which encourages people to build a better future, to work to advance technological progress and long-term thinkg about the future.

CONCLUSION

Good living is an act of intelligence.

Don’t forget to daydream in the bath and to enjoy dinning with friends.

Copyright © 2014 by Gary S. Smolker

The Academy Award for Best Movie in 2012 – a comparison of the entertainment value, take home value, craftsmanship and other virtues of “Argo”, “Django Unchained”, “Lincoln”, “Zero Dark Thirty”, “Silver Linings Playbook”, “Les Miserables”, “Armour”, “Life of Pi”,”Beast of the Southern Wild” and “The Master” and comments on judging by Gary S. Smolker (February 22, 2013)

Overview of What Makes the Best Movies the Best Movies

Movies are a sophisticated and flexible instrument of thought that can be used for self-development, self-knowledge and self-expression alike.

In that regard, movies inform us, hep us understand things, and remember things and they create expectations.

Movies mold our thoughts; they give color and shape our desires; they limit or extend our sympathies; and they promote self-awareness and awareness of others.

The best movies have “meaningful substance”; they afford pleasure to the movie viewing public by presenting a story through images and dialogue with such an abundance of feeling, thought, imagination and unbounded spirit that the thickest mind and slowest eye is aroused to think and see what the film maker wants the movie goer to perceive.

However, people are bored and irritated by movies that are dull and that do not make sense.

That being said, the best movies have entertainment and take-home value.

Based on that  criteria Argo is the most deserving movie nominated to win the Oscar for best picture, followed by “Django Unchained”, “Lincoln”, “Zero Dark Thirty”, “Silver Linings Playbook” and “Les Miserables.”

Argo

Argo is a movie about leadership, values, courage, heroism, creativity, imagination, thinking, good judgment, patriotism, and service to country plus it informs the viewer of the historical background of events that led to a mob of more than 500 Iranian students storming the American Embassy in Tehran on Sunday, November 4, 1979, where they seized sixty-six Americans as hostages.

The Iranian Hostage crisis was a low point in American history.  I remember President Jimmy Carter informing the world of America’s aborted effort to rescue those hostages.

President Carter told us, “there was no fighting, there was  no combat.”  But eight men had died, he explained, when “two of our American aircraft collided on the ground following a refueling operation in a remote desert location in Iran.”

The movie Argo informs us that the Iranian students and Iranian people thought they would have a better life after the Shah fled, under the leadership of the Shah’s longtime opponent, Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini who had returned to Tehran after his fourteen-year exile.  The Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini incited Iranian students to storm the American Embassy.

Instead of gaining a better life, the people of Iran have seen their freedom of expression (i.e., what women are allowed to wear) taken away from them under the leadership of the Ayatollah Khomeini.

Argo cast a spell on me.  I was thoroughly engaged.  The film aroused tension in me from the moment it began until it ended.

By a chain of circumstances that befall them, the characters in “Argo” (all of whom are fully developed in the movie) incarnate a way of living life which I completely relate to and hold up as my model for how to live because I felt I knew the fully developed characters in the film portrayed by Ben Affleck, Alan Arkin and John Goodman are committed people with good values, good judgment, imagination, creativity, courage and joi de vive in whom I can place my complete trust and in whom I can have complete confidence.

  1. Argo is based on a true story in which historical events of significance intersected with policy issues which enabled the values of the extraordinary real life characters played by Affleck, Arkin and Goodman to define and mark them as heroes by what they did and by what they did not do in Argo and in real life. Argo coherently tells their story, which until recently was a classified story.
  2. Their story, portrayed in Argo, is a story of men’s commitment to a mission and their fierce commitment to one another.
  3. The movie Argo reminds me of Voltaire’s statement, “God is not on the side of the big battalions, but on the side of those who shoot best.”
  4. I thoroughly enjoyed the characters portrayed by Arkin and Goodman’s easy going charisma and disarming humor and am in a state of highest admiration of Tony Mendez’s sense of honor and duty to others, as portrayed by director-actor Ben Affleck.
  5. The men portrayed by Arkin, Goodman and Afflect are men whose word, in all situations, could always be taken as truth and I highly respect the tradition of honor embedded in those men’s personalities.
  6. In Argo each of those men is shown to be a man who is aware, grounded, strong, competent, ferociously independent and tough — but never petty.
  7. Argo is based on a true story: In 1979, six Americans were trapped in Tehran in danger of their lives, while irate Iranians searched door by door for them, after having escaped from the American Embassy to hide in the Canadian Embassy during the American Embassy Hostage Crisis.
  8. The main character in the movie, CIA Agent “exfiltration specialist” Tony Mendez [masterfully played by Ben Affleck] came up with a zany out of the box plan for rescuing them and getting them out of the country.
  9. Mendez proposed that he would enter Iran posing as a movie producer scouting for a location to shoot a science fiction movie entitled Argo. The six trapped Americans would follow him and leave Iran with him posing as the crew.
  10. To get expert advice on how to complete the facade of making a movie, Mendez goes to Hollywood to consult and recruit veteran Hollywood producer Lester Siegel (masterfully played by Alan Arkin) and a special effects maestro (masterfully played by John Goodman).
  11. The story told in Argo recounts in an edge-of-your-seat thriller the “caper” the three of them (Affleck, Arkin and Goodman) planned and how it was executed.
  12. Throughout the movie the tension never lets up.
  13. Real drama shows a conflict about a real issue.  There is real drama in Argo.
  14. In Argo Tony Mendez finds out as he is about to take the six Americans that he is rescuing to the Airport, that Jimmy Carter, the President of the United States, has decided to abort the mission because of fear of possible repercussions if the mission fails.  Tony Mendez has plane reservations but doesn’t have plane tickets or money to purchase plane tickets for the seven of them.
  15. Mr. Mendez is ordered to abort the mission.  Mr. Mendez is ordered to abandon the six Americans he came to rescue.
  16. Tony Mendez is committed to his mission.
  17. Mr. Mendez refuses to follow orders, refuses to do what he has been ordered to do, and refuses to abandon the people he has come to Tehran to rescue.
  18. Mr. Mendez tells his boss that he is taking the six Americans with him to the airport and if the tickets to fly out of Tehran are not paid for and there waiting for them at the airport all seven of them will be found out and exposed. This upsets his boss, the Director of the C.I.A. and the President of the United States.
  19. This is a highly entertaining “feel-good” movie with lots of take-home value.

Argo begins with a recital of the history of the Shah’s mistreatment of his people.

The introduction of the movie Argo informs the viewer that ordinary people in Iran hated the Shah for good reason, that at the time of the take over of the American Embassy Iran was being exploited by big foreign oil companies, and the Shah was living in luxury (i.e., lunches flown in from Paris, the Shaw’s wife was bathing in milk baths while the Iranian people were starving.

The story told in the movie Argo makes it clear that the Iranian students who stormed the American Embassy in Tehran believed Americans had orchestrated the Shah’s rise to power through a military coup which deposed a  democratically elected president who was trying to reign in foreign exploitation of his country’s natural resources.  The students thought their takeover of the American Embassy was a necessary step to prevent another pending American intervention and further exploitation of their country.

Before I saw Argo all I remembered of those times and of the Iranian Hostage Situation was yellow ribbons hung all over America and Americans wondering how long it would be until the Americans held hostage would be returned to freedom and be able to come home to American.  I recalled that the American rescue effort had failed due to the collision of aircraft that were supposed to rescue American hostages.

I also remembered Ross Perot’s daring rescue of the American hostages.

Now, I realize America’s support of a cruel dictator and American support given to the gigantic companies that exploited Iran provoked a cascade of consequences in America, in Iran and in the entire Middle East and in the rest of the world that we all now live with.

Argo shows us there is a lot to know and a lot to remember.

Argo brings everything of historical importance about that moment in time and the Iranian Hostage Situation all together in one coherent piece and brings the movie goer back into that time in history.

Tony Mendez had honor and humanity on his side, wit in his head, skill and a higher life as his aim which enabled him to disobey his boss’s direct orders.

In Argo the people in Hollywood (played by Alan Arkin and John Goodwin) are portrayed as being highly patriotic, highly intelligent and unselfish.

Argo informs us that many of the people in Hollywood deserve our praise, are praiseworthy individuals who would conduct themselves with honor sensitivity and intelligence, unselfishly and patriotically when given the opportunity to do so.

Argo also serves the highly important diplomatic purpose of informing educated leaders in other parts of the world, especially in the fastest growing economies in the world in South America and Africa, as well as ordinary people all over the including people now living in Iran, of the above recited history, albeit Argo is a movie, not a documentary.

Movies, such as Argo, have political and commercial ramifications.

Argo is public relations for the United States.

Argo will serve as a countervailing force in the minds of elected leaders in Latin America who are well aware of and have not forgotten the effect of past unwanted disruptive USA interventions in their countries and throughout Latin America.

Before the release of the movie Argo the current thinking of leaders in Latin America (including the thinking initiated and continued by Correa, Morales, Kitchner and Rouself) did not include the thought that Americans have a strong moral fiber and backbone.  That was not their thought when they and their countries took actions as a defense against their perceived exploitation of their countries by the U.S.

The movie Argo and the story it tells illuminates the fact that there is moral fiber in America, that a great number of Americans embrace being honorable and trust worthy, and that a great number of American are living up to commitments and are actively taking moral leadership.

The thoughts of other people in the world about the moral fiber of Americans is of great importance to every American, to the living standards that will be enjoyed by Americans in the future and to the economic and world leadership America will be able to enjoy.

For example, America can not afford to have the leaders of Latin America or of Africa, or the citizens of those countries, distrust America’s intentions, integrity, morality or social conscience.

Consider the following economic facts which can be gleamed from reading the February issue of “newgeography” written by Joel Kotkin on February 18, 2013.

  • Sub-Sahara Africa over the past decade has produced six of the world’s fastest growing economies.
  • Through 2011-15, according to the International Monetary Fund, seven of the fastest growing countries will be African, and Africa as a whole will surpass the slowing growth rates in Asia, particularly China.
  • Africa already has more middle class households (defined as those with incomes of at least $20,000 per year) than India.
  • China’s former vice-minister of commerce, Wei Jianguo, recently told China Daily that Africa will eventually surpass the U.S. and the E.U. to become China’s largest trading partner.
  • With 60 million people, including a middle class of 400 million, Latin America represents one of the world’s great growth markets.
  • Over the past two years the growth in Latin America has been twice the growth and more in some countries than in the United States, Europe and Japan.
  • Latin America’s unemployment rate is 6.5 percent, well below unemployment rates in the U.S. and Europe.
  • Overall, Latin America’s combined gross domestic product is larger than that of Russia and India combined.

The release of the movie Argo rebuts the image of the Ugly American.

The true story dramatized in the movie Argo is a welcome explication and endorsement of the virtues of free-enterprise capitalism practiced in the United States which is driven by a purpose higher than maximizing profits.

The story told in Argo creates wonderful expectations and is good PR for the United States.

People live up, or down, to expectations. We all create expectations.

Affleck, in his film Argo, makes clear and unforgettable the moral assumptions upon which Affleck, the majority of Americans, and I believe people should live by.

Affleck is the real deal.  Watching Afflect’s movie Argo made me feel alive.

Argo is a wake-up call to all American politicians, to all American citizens, to all operating businesses and to all world leaders of the consequences of being dishonorable.

Django Unchained

In the tradition of Western art, Django Unchained is an object not only of enjoyment but also of self-aware contemplation.

Django Unchained delivers the simple messages that (a) slavery is bad, and (b) all people are intelligent, have the capacity to learn, can be romantic and have the capacity to be noble.

In Django Unchained, a very simple appearing black man walking in chains chained to other black men who is a slave, is set free, given ingredients for a successful life –vocational training, an education, a job in a profession, and tools to make a living.  Thereafter he becomes a big commercial success in his trade, and rises to the opportunity afforded to him to show that he is an unselfish courageous noble person.

Obviously the filmmaker who made Django Unchained, Quentin Tarantino, made Django Unchained with the objective of teaching the audience a practical moral lesson and with the hope that the audience would learn the lesson taught in this film — teach a slave how to be good at a profession and give him the tools to do so and you will enable him to become a successful and noble businessman.

Great film makers, such as Quentin Tarantino, change our stance and vision.

Django Unchained is a small step taken by Tarantino to change the view of those people who think certain people, by reason of the color of their skin, are “inferior” to other people.

Django Unchained is Tarantino’s attempt to eradicate racial prejudice, to drive a nail in the coffin and bring a final death to the contagion of racial prejudice and to illuminate the value of providing a quality meaningful practical education to all people that will enable them to advance their own well-being.

Django Unchained’s financial success encourages people in the United States as well as people in the rest of the world to believe there are brilliant practical socially conscious business leaders in the United States (such as Quentin Tarantino) whose socially conscious leadership receives a hearty enthusiastic welcome from the movie going public in the United States.

People complaining about the violence depicted in Django Unchained do not understand Tarantino’s objective or the way the world works.  Many of them do not agree with Tarantino’s message that all men are entitled to be afforded dignified treatment as human beings, are entitled to be treated equally before the law and are entitled to receive an affordable free meaningful education.

Quentin Tarantino does not provide a simple prescription for fighting racial prejudice or the inequitable treatment of any particular individual or class of individuals or give a solution to fix the lack of quality education provided to children currently enrolled in the public school systems in the United States.

To the contrary, the story told in Django Unchained demonstrates that there is never a single “fix-all” solution to complicated problems in real life because life is complicated.

In the 1770’s, Diderot said in Rameau’s Nephew: in the whole kingdom everybody must dance his little cowardly dance of social flattery  Only one man walks – the King – and even he goes through contortions if he is ruled by a mistress.

So called leaders (metaphorical Kings) go through contortions in the grid-locked Congress of the United States demonstrating that [for is-guided and cowardly political reasons] intelligent people still cannot work together efficiently and effectively or demonstrate talent brilliance or leadership in solving problems of great moment.

In modern day life, we still live in a world where ordinary people are still not afforded equal opportunity.

For example, in Southern California, in the City of Baldwin Hills only 50% of the money per student spent on students in public schools in Beverly Hills (five miles away) is spent on educating students in public schools in the City of Baldwin Hills.

In Northern California, teachers who teach in the public schools in the City of Oakland can expect to be paid $10,000 per year less than teachers who teach in the public schools in the City of Palo Alto.

Such is the current state of public education in public primary schools in the “Golden State” of California.

Django Unchained demonstrates that Quentin Tarantino is not a member of the solid, cautious, unimaginative members of society who huddle together hoping they will prevent revolution or cause revolution by merely sitting still.

I recommend that you think of Quentin Tarantino as a contributor to the advancement of knowledge.

Events have taught us that the fate of each man and mankind and the human race are permanently in jeopardy.

The life of a slave portrayed in Django Unchained urges us to do something to create a more abundant life for our descendants by creating a more civilized and equitable society.

Django Unchained has tactical vigor and connectiveness.

The characters in Django Unchained (particularly Django and his teacher Dr. Schultz) teach us that creating a more civilized and equitable society is the purpose of life.

People who complain about the violence in Django Unchained are people without insight.

Being without insight, they are sitting still and only see one half of the effect of sitting still; being without imagination or foresight they do not know what will happen next; being without originality they cannot devise anything new to supply if necessary in the place of what is old.

Quentin Tarantino, on the other hand, cannot help being brilliant; the quality of his mind is to put everything in the most lively, most exciting, and most startling form.

Quentin Tarantino startles those who do not like to be startled, and does not compose those who like to be composed.

Quentin Tarantino’s movie Django Unchained forces the viewer to ask himself or herself the question, What are my priorities? and appeals to an alert public who love discussion, who delight in argument, who love the noble play of mind upon mind and who want to live in a more civilized and equitable world.

Art is so potent, “Life imitates art.”

That is why Django Unchained is a great success.

Lincoln

Steven Spielberg’s movie Lincoln taught me something new, that Lincoln bribed Congressmen to get the 13th amendment (the amendment abolishing slavery) passed by Congress.

Before watching Lincoln I thought of President Abraham Lincoln as being “Honest Abe”, a man who learned by candlelight, a man who succeeded in life by working hard.

After watching Lincoln, I now think of Abraham Lincoln as a man who could think with complete clarity of mind, who succeeded by having singular determination and single minded focus and by applying great energy, ruthless cunning, self-assertiveness and utilizing a towering intelligence in the passionate execution of well thought out plans.

Lincoln was not a clumsy country lawyer.  Lincoln had great poise. Lincoln was a supremely craft conscious genius, not an innocent.

Lincoln’s extraordinary power was to make his spirit felt.

Steven Spielberg has transcendent gifts of perception and composition.

Spielberg’s genius is to show us that Abraham Lincoln, in spite of all the pressures on him, was at home in himself, comfortable with who he was; that Lincoln was full of energy in what he felt, and that energy led Lincoln to have a purpose which propelled him.

In making us see how he perceives President Lincoln got the 13th Amendment passed, Steven Spielberg is not trying to persuade us of anything or to judge how Lincoln did it.

Spielberg is only trying to make us know more than the common uneducated and unenlightened person knows about President Lincoln so that we may enjoy and appreciate President Lincoln’s accomplishments more.

Spielberg accomplishes his goal with flying colors by showing us that Lincoln fully imagined the abolishion of slavery, fully imagined slaves becoming free men, then “willed it to happen.”

Spielberg (Lincoln) teaches us that people who “will” what they have first “fully imagined” can make it happen, and that effort, endeavor and purpose come from thinking about something, from consciousness and mental effort.  Most importantly, Spielberg teaches us in his portrayal of President Abraham Lincoln that life is not just atoms in a bag but instead consist of physical efforts that are manifestation of mental activity of thinking.

That being said, Lincoln is a work of genius with great take-home value because it illuminates the importance and power of thinking and turning thoughts into desires and then turning desires into goals and thoughtful effort.

Silver Linings Playbook

Silver Linings Playbook is the story of a man (Pat, masterfully played by Bradley Cooper) who married the wrong woman, discovered his wife naked in the shower having sex with another man when he came home, beat the shit out of that man, was prosecuted, lost his marriage, his home, his job, and temporarily lost his freedom when confined to a state mental institution as part of a plea bargain.

Silver Linings Playbook is a “comeback after losing it all story” in which a man who has “lost it all” (Pat played by Bradley Cooper) finally finds and luckily realizes he has found the right woman for him (Tiffany, masterfully played by Jennifer Lawrence).

At an intellectual level, Silver Linings Playbook teaches us that a man married to the wrong woman is not likely to find solid happiness.  But, a man united with the right woman is a complete human being who is empowered thereby to reach his full potential. Together as a couple that man and woman are more likely to succeed in the world.

Watching Silver Linings Playbook reminded me of the following point of view expressed by Benjamin Franklin in a letter dated June 25, 1745: “A single Man is not nearly the Value he would have in a State of Union.  He resembles the odd half of a pair of scissors.  If  you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.”  That was the major point made in Silver Linings Playbook.

By the way, Benjamin Franklin preferred old Women to young ones, “Because as they have more knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and lastingly agreeable… They study to be good.  To maintain their influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility.” 

It is those wonderful traits Tiffany portrayed which captures Pat’s (Bradley Cooper’s) heart in Silver Linings Playbook.

Watching Pat reluctantly fall in love with Tiffany in Silver Linings Playbook is very enjoyable and entertaining.

Silver Linings Playbook skillfully molds our thoughts and enchantingly gives color and shape to our desires while promoting healthy sensitive self-awareness and mutually beneficial awareness of others.

Silver Linings Playbook is a skillfully written movie, well directed by a highly skilled director which is artistically performed to the highest level of acting by a masterly casted ensemble of highly talented actors.

All of these factors combined is what makes Silver Lining Playbook a great movie and a healthy fulfilling and delightful movie to watch.

Zero Dark Thirty

You can always tell the stature of a movie by the stature of its critics.

Zero Dark Thirty has high stature by virtue of being criticized by United States Senators Dianne Feinstein, Carl Levin and John McCain.

Additionally, Acting C.I.A. Chief Michael Morell has criticized Zero Dark Thirty.

On the other hand, former C.I.A. Chief Leon Panetta said Zero Dark Thirty got many things right.

Zero Dark Thirty is about the use of torture by the C.I.A., the torturing people by the C.I.A. of people captured by the C.I.A. and/or captured by the armed forces of the United States.

I agree with Richard Cohen statement in the January 28, 2013 issue of the Washington Post, “What the film says is really less important than what is being said about it. In the category of ‘thought-provoking’ it deserves an Oscar.”

One measure of the “worth” of a movie is power of a movie, its influence on the world through its effect on the soul of the beholder.

Zero Dark Thirty has sparked a national debate on the use, effectiveness, short term benefits and detriments as well as the long term consequences of the United States using torture as an interrogation technique.

By any measure Zero Dark Thirty is a very important movie.

Update

In the February 25, 2013 issue of the Los Angeles Times is an article with the headlines, Karzi bans U.S Troops in key area and Karzi accuses U.S. troops of torture. Quoting: “Afghan President Hamid Karzai on Sunday ordered U.S. special forces troops to cease operations in a strategic southern province, accusing the Americans and Afghans working for them of torturing and abducting civilians….It was the latest example of strained relations between the United States and Karzai’s government, and the latest dispute to damage U.S. efforts to achieve a smooth withdrawal of the remaining 60,000 American troops in Afghanistan by the end of the year.  The Obama administration has long viewed Karzai as an undesirable partner, and has complained repeatedly about widespread allegations of corruption involving those close to the Afghan leader.

In the January 21, 2013 issue of the Los Angeles Times is an article in which a United Nation’s report alleges Afghan abuse of prisoners.  According to that report suspected insurgents continued to be tortured in numerous Afghan detention facilities.  They are subjected to severe beatings and electric shocks.  Many of the suspected fighters who have ended up in Afghan custody were captured by U.S. and allied troops and then turned over to the Afghans.  Afghan President Hamid Karzai maintains that the handling of detainees is a question of national sovereignty.

Les Miserables

Although Les Miserables has outstanding sets, outstanding costuming, outstanding hair and make-up, and outstanding actors, Les Miserables is not an exciting movie.

Les Miserables is not an invigorating movie. It does not create excitement nor does it provoke self-aware contemplation or conversation with others.

Les Miserables accurately depicts life in a very dreary time, when many people living in Paris and the French countryside were starving.

However, Les Miserables does not have tactical vigor or connectiveness.

Furthermore, although many of the the characters in Les Miserables are noble people who make unbelievable sacrifice (i.e. a mother who becomes a whore and sells the teeth in her mouth to earn money to support her daughter, and a rich man who gives up his power position and wealth so that another man wrongfully accused of something will not be sent to jail) the characters portrayed in Les Miserables do not seem like real live people.

As a result, although the story and sub-stories portrayed in Les Miserables portray the noble actions of people who do good and are worthy of our admiration, the story and sub-stories portrayed in this movie do not capture the viewers attention.

Very few people in the audience watching Les Miserables, if indeed anyone in the audience, will care about what the actors are doing or will want to know what the actors will be doing next.

Unless you know the story told by Victor Hugo in his book (Les Miserables), most audiences will be unable to make sense of the movie (Les Miserables), perhaps because it is a musical and because it is not a dramatic production.   As a result of a failed effort to make a musical out of a very dramatic novel many people who see Les Miserables will be able to relate to why the characters do what they do.

This is not a Sylvester Stallone movie.  Unlike a Stallone movie most audiences will not be able to relate to what the actors are doing.

As a result of lack of character development a typical  Les Miserables audience is unable to believe the noble sentiments which propel where the actors are coming from, how the actors think, and why the actors think the way they think.

Les Miserables does not flow along smoothly from a beginning to a middle to an end.  As a result, the audience becomes exhausted watching and listening to great actors – who are at most mediocre singers – singing songs designed to turn a great novel into a musical while delivering stellar acting performances in scene after scene while the story jumps from one scene after another connection to one another and without continuity of plot.

In order words, Les Miserables is a poorly sung musical incoherently staged as a dramatic story.

While watching this movie, most viewers will quickly become bogged down in confusion.

At the end of watching this movie it is clear that both the film maker and movie goer have both wasted their time.

For a different type of movie experience brought about by the brilliant adaptation of a great novel as a movie I highly recommend watching Midnight’s Children.

 Midnight’s Children is the product of a momentous collaboration between director Deepa Metha (a fearless filmmaker) and Salman Rushdie (one of the world’s most imaginative and controversial novelists).

Midnight’s Children is an epic.  It is a movie of gigantic proportions that tells a story which has many twists and turns and in which all the scenes are seamlessly woven together in an engaging dramatic and sensible manner.

Midnight’s Children brings romance, spectacle, intrigue and social commentary together in a most exciting, dramatic, engaging and agreeable manner.

To experience a worthwhile and enjoyable lesson in how a movie can masterfully develop characters, I recommend watching The Reluctant Fundamentalist.

The main character is The Reluctant Fundamentalist is, as are the main characters in Les Miserables, true to himself and lives his life with dignity.

Unlike Les Miserables,  The Reluctant Fundamentalist is a totally engaging movie that makes sense, touches the viewer’s soul, has taken home value, stimulates lively and worthwhile self-examination and conversation and will influence people’s conduct in the real world.

A movie critic at the 2012 Toronto International Film Festival proclaimed, “… The Reluctant Fundamentalist promises to be one of the most talked about films of the year.”

The characters portrayed/played by Mendez, Arkin and Goodman in Argo were made so lovable by filmmaker-director Ben Affleck and by screenwriter Chris Terrio that the audience was able to relate to those characters  merely by watching what the the actors did as the story developed without Argo taking up any of the audience’s time explaining why the actors did what they did, or why the actors were doing what they were doing or why what the actors were doing in the story portrayed in the movie was part and parcel of their being.  That is the effect that good tone good rhythm good structure and good organization — which are the components which underlies good story telling achieves -and is that effect that movie makers, directors, screenwriters, and actors should seek to achieve.

All of  elements of good story telling, great directing, great screen writing, great cinematography, great editing and great acting are abundantly present in Margarethe von Trotta’s masterful film Hannah Arendt.


In Hannah Arendt, actress Barbara Sukowa, without speaking a word, fully inhabits the role of Hannah Arendt. Hannah Arendt’s life was not lacking in drama.  Hannah Arendt is considered one of the intellectual giants of the 20th century.

Among other things, Hannah Arendt said that the number of Jews killed by the Nazis would have been much smaller if Jewish leaders in each territory occupied by the Nazis had not cooperated with the Nazis.

With respect to Eichmann, Hannah Arendt said Eichmann was just a normal non-thinking man following orders and a completely mediocre person. Arendt also said that totalitarianism is designed to take away all human impulse, to make people into non-persons, into people who do not think.

Following the Eichmann trial in Jerusalem, Arendt formulated the concept of the “banality of evil” — evil not as diabolical intent but as an unthinking, almost off-handed ignorance of the consequences of one’s actions.  Arendt said, “The greatest evil is the evil committed by nobodies, that is by human beings who refuse to be persons.”

Without speaking a word Actress Barbara Sukowa conveys the isolation, fierce determination and brilliance of Hannah Arendt.

After watching Hannah Arendt, I wanted to know more about Hannah Arendt (about her life) and to read the books, essays and letters she had written during her life time.

I learned many things and was exposed to many ideas that were knew to me by watching Hannah Arendt.

I did not learn anything by watching Les Miserables. 

Watching Les Miserables did not create any desire on my part to learn anything or to do anything.

Watching the movie Les Miserables did not move me to do anything.

Les Miserables is an unremarkable film.  Hannah Arendt, on the other hand, is a remarkable film

Watching Hannah Arendt moved me.  In that regard, soon after watching Hannah Arendt I purchased several books written by Hannah Arendt and several books containing essays and letters she had written during her life-time.

I learned a lot and enjoyed and have been inspired by reading each one of Hannah Arendt’s books which I purchased as a result of seeing the movie Hannah Arendt.

Les Miserables should be a celebration of the lives of people.  It is not.

If you want to see a movie that is an intense celebration of the lives of people the movie is about, that has intoxicating prose and high energy, go see On the Road,  a film by Walter Salles, with a screenplay by Jose Rivera, staring Sam Riley, Garrett Hedlund, Kristen Stewart, Viggo Mortensen and Kristen Dunst — and enjoy the experience of being thoroughly invigorated while being entertained.

If you want to see a meaningful romantic movie, a love story about a noble unselfish man that will keep you spellbound and on the edge of your seat, see Sergio Costelitto’s film Twice Born staring Penelope Cruz, Emile Hirsch, Adnan Haskovic, Saadet Aksoy, Pietro Castelitto, Luca De Filippo, Sergeo Castellito, Jane Berkin, Mira Furlan and Jovan Diviak.

There were many great movies released in 2012, Les Miserables was not one of them.

Armour

I did not see this movie.

I understand from people who saw this movie that this movie is so realistic and engaging that it makes the viewer contemplate his or her own mortality.

That tells me that this movie has good tone, good rhythm, good structure, good organization and is an excellent execution of a creative vision.

Life of Pi

Life of Pi is a technological marvel.  In this movie a boy and a tiger are shipwrecked and then drift aimlessly together in an ocean that is sometimes calm and at other times choppy.

The movie is an amazing technological accomplishment in that the tiger looks and acts real although during almost the entire movie the tiger the tiger the audience sees on the screen is a computer generated image.

The movie is a cinematic wonder in that while the audience watches the boy and tiger floating aimlessly in a frequently bobbing and rocking small boat the audience does not get sea sick.

Putting aside the technological accomplishment of creating a movie that has a real appearing animated computer generated tiger and many types of computer generated fish that look real, watching this movie is not an enjoyable experience.

Watching Life of Pi is not an enjoyable experience because Life of Pi is a metaphor that stands for the propositions that the fittest survive and that it takes forced effort to survive.

But aside that lesson, which is not well taught in the Life of Pi, the Life of Pi is a aimless boring movie that has no plot.

During the entire time one watches the movie one is struck by how the main characters in this movie (a boy an a tiger) are unreal and unbelievable characters.

The story portrayed on Life of Pi literally and figuratively goes no where.

Life of Pi has no take-home value, is not entertaining and although Life of Pi is a technological wonder of the world of film making with computers it is of no sociological significance.

If you want to see a poetic demonstration of the power of photography and narration see Terrence Malick’s film To The Wonder staring Ben Affleck, Javier Bardem, Rachel McAdams and Olga Kurylenko. This film tells the story of a cold man (Ben Affleck) who cannot commit to beautiful women (Olga Kurylenko and Rachel McAdams) who give him unconditioned love and of a priest (Javier Bardem) who is full of despair because he doesn’t feel the presence of God or connection of God.

To the Wonder, unlike Life of Pi, is visual poetry.

To the Wonder is magical. Life of Pi is not.

To the Wonder is a poetic demonstration of the power of photography; To the Wonder is visual poetry, Life of Pi is not.

Beast of the Southern Wild

This is a cute entertaining movie about a little six year old girl who is comfortable in her own skin and in her own life as she bravely faces a life of poverty living in post-Katrina Louisiana lagoon after disaster strikes with no fear of hurricanes or poverty.

This movie is extremely entertaining but has no take home value.

The Master

 In this movie, Joaquin Phonenix is a totally convincing (believable) whacked out crazy veteran of World War II and Philip Seymour Hoffman is a totally believable cult leader.

No-one can doubt their acting genius after seeing this movie.

My criticism of this movie is that the story told in this movie is fatiguing, takes too much effort to understand.

Therefore, it will have little or no influence on the world and many people will find it has no take home value and is not entertaining.

Many viewers will find this movie boring, dreary and a horrible experience.  They will want to escape during the showing because the movie and the story it is telling will make no sense to them.

Comments on Judging

Some people have told me that President Lincoln was the worse president in United States history because of the tremendous loss of life and property in the Civil War and that the movie Lincoln is a horrible movie because it sustains President Lincoln’s reputation as being the best United States president.

Other people have told me that President Lincoln was the best president in United States history because President Lincoln took the long view of how life would be in a future if slavery was abolished now vs. if slavery was not abolished now in all parts of the United States.

Those people believe President Lincoln is an inspiration for all people for all time.

Those people have told me they believe that the portrayal of President Lincoln making the statement quoted in the next paragraph makes the movie Lincoln the best movie released in 2012.

In the movie Lincoln, President Lincoln states, words to the effect, that “what we are doing here if we abolish slavery is not just for the benefit of people who are currently slaves but for their children and future generations.”

The ability to judge this right and that wrong, this good and that bad, this movie is the best movie and that movie is the second best movie, etc. first and foremost depends upon the self-understanding of the judge.

The precondition of judging is the ability to imagine before your eyes the others whom your judgment represents (who your judgment speaks for) and to whom and to what force and activity your judgment is responding to.

Judgment is a sort of balancing activity in which the scales of justice weigh the stability of the world.

In the regard, the United States Supreme Court currently has before it a case (Shelby County v. Holder, No. 12-96) which challenges the central provision of the Voting Rights Act of 1965 which prevents nine states from changing voting procedures without getting permission from federal officials.

By the way, the Voting Rights Act of 1965, does not only apply to states in the South.  It also specifically applies to the boroughs of Brooklyn, Manhattan and the Bronx.

The Voting Rights Act of 1965 grew out of the legacies of and lessons learned from slavery, the Civil War and the civil rights movement.

In Shelby v. Holder, No. 12-96, the nine justices of the United States Supreme Court are being “required/asked” to answer the following questions, among others:

  1. Has the modern South outgrown its troubled past and/or are the legal burdens on the nine states still justified?
  2. Are citizens in the South more racist than citizens in the North?
  3. Are the nine states subject to the “Act” “independent sovereigns” or must they continue to live “under the trusteeship of the United States government?”
  4. Has racial discrimination in voting ended, that there is none anywhere in the United States?  Has the problem to which the Voting Rights Act was addressed been solved?

According to a recent article in the New York Times: If the Justices strike down that law’s central provision, it would be easier for lawmakers in the nine states to enact the kind of laws Republicans in several states have recently advocated, including tighter identification standards.  It would also give those states more flexibility to move polling places and redraw legislative districts.

Of course the Civil War was aimed at treating some states differently than others.

The NAACP Legal Defense Fund, which joined the government in defending the law, argues: This statute is in part about our march through history to keep promises that our constitution says for too long were unmet.”

The United States lived through 200 years of slavery and 80 years of racial segregation before the Voting Rights Act of 1965 came into being.

Massachusetts, which is not covered by the statute, has the worse ratio of white voter turnout to African-American voter turnout.

Mississippi, which is covered by the statute, has the best ratio of African-American turnout, with African-American turnout exceeding that of whites.

Times change.

The judgments that you and I and everyone else make are determined in large part by the forces, events and personalities that shape our lives and the era in which we live.

Movies shape our lives.

The history we experience (including the movies we see and talk about) is the backdrop to our lives and largely defines, enables or limits all that we do and do not do.

Happy movie going.

Gary S. Smolker, Publisher
Gary Smolker Idea Exchange Blog
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