A Woman’s Sexual Appetite – by Gary S. Smolker

May 5, 2016

A Woman’s Sexual Appetite

I know a man who showed pictures of the dinner Veronica Prout, Johanh Phil Gustilo Cao and I had at my apartment Sunday, May 1, 2016 to his girlfriend.

His girlfriend immediately replied: “I am not going to have sex with you again, until you take me to a dinner party like that.”

Take away: Food is the key to a woman’s sexual appetite.

What A Beautiful Dinner

The dinner was created, eaten and enjoyed (Sunday, May 1, 2016) by Veronica Prout, and Johanh Phil Gustilo Cao.

They cooked a delightful seven course dinner in my apartment, which the three of us enjoyed immensely.

We finally finished “eating” dinner at 2:00 a.m.

Entree: Braised Eggs with Lamb, Portobello Mushroom with Asparagus


Drink: Star Anise infused Chilicano


Salad: Arugula Fennel Salad with Garlic Shrimp


Desert: Port Infused Meringue with Caramel Pudding, covered with Pistachios and Cashews




Veronica and JP enjoying desert



JP In My Kitchen

JP has just cut the rack of lamb into individual lamb chops


Food Prep

Vegetables on the granite table top in my kitchen


Veronica dicing vegetables




JP cooking mushrooms for main dish


JP preparing garlic shrimp for salad



JP assembling the salad




Arugula Fennel Salad with Garlic Shrimp



Individual lamb chops cut from the rack of lamb by JP


Preparing the tomatoes that will go into the braised eggs with lamb entree


Cooking the lamb chops that will go into the braised eggs with lamb entree


Adding cherry tomatoes to the cooking lamb chops


Adding/braising the eggs


Adding cilantro leaves


The final dish – braised eggs with lamb & sumac


Ingredients: Olive Oil, Finely Chopped Onion, Cloves of Garlic sliced thinly, Lamb Chops, Ground Cumin, Toasted Unsalted Pistachios, Toasted Pine Nuts, Harissa Paste, Finely Chopped Onion Peel, Cherry Tomatoes, Chicken Stock, Free-range Eggs, Cilantro Leaves, Salt (Himalayan Pink Salt Crystals) and Freshly Ground Pepper.

This concoction is Jerusalem fusion food at its very best.  It incorporates traditional elements that are purely Palestinian with ingredients characteristic of various Jewish cuisines, and puts them all together in a completely nontraditional way.

By the way, we also had Pistachio Saffron Ice Cream, a classic Persian treat, for dessert.

Original Menu

Our original menu was:

  • Salad: Arugula, Fennel, Artichoke, Shaved Parmesan Cheese, Pomegranate Seeds, and Grilled Shrimp
  • Soup: Melon Gazpacho with preschuito (???spelling)
  • Protein: Braised Eggs with Lamb
  • Vegetable: Portobello filet with Asparagus
  • Starch: Sweet Potato Gratin
  • Dessert: Port-infused meringue on caramel custard pudding
  • Specialty Drink: Star Anise Chilanceo

We latter added: (a) prechuto (??spelling??) wrapped garlic shrimp as an appetizer, (b) Pistachio Saffron Ice Cream as a desert, and (c) a desert wine offering aromas of black cherry and fig with flavors of plum, cocoa and raspberry.



If a man makes an exciting sexy memorable dinner for the woman in his life he can reasonably expect a positive response.

If the woman asks him to take her out to dinner, if he doesn’t do so he should reasonable expect a negative reaction.

Good decision making is contingent on the ability to envision what comes next.

By the way: a losing hand/bad decision isn’t necessary a loss.  Rather, in poker and in life, it is an excellent experiment when you learn from it.

Life and poker are about using your bets and guesses/chips to gather information.

Poker is about using your chips to gather information faster than the other players.

Life is about using your experiences to gather information as fast as practical.

Good decision making is about envisioning what will happen next.

Even the smartest poker players can be undone by bad luck.

Probabilities can help you forecast likelihoods, but they can’t guarantee the future.

The paradox of learning how to make better decisions is that it requires developing a comfort with doubt, with less than a perfect confidence level.

Most of our most important decisions are, in fact, attempts to forecast the future.

Good luck.



Copyright © 2016 by Gary S. Smolker, All Rights Reserved



About Gary S. Smolker

PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY: No enterprise can exist for itself alone. Every successful enterprise ministers to some great need, it performs some great service, not for itself, but for others. Otherwise, it ceases to be profitable and ceases to exist. Imagination, open mindedness and flexibility are the most important factors in unlocking potential. Those who embrace innovation, improvisation, continuous learning, time management, are action oriented, high energy, passionate, creative, purposeful and intense individuals are best equipped to succeed. We all have ideas and the ability to make progress by sharing information and our ideas and also by changing our ideas when appropriate. We should always be on the lookout for teaching and mentoring moments. We hold time like water in our hands; however tightly we clench our fingers, it drips away. But, if it falls on a seed, a seed may grow to become something that will have a positive social impact. PERSONAL INTERESTS: I have a passion to learn, to innovate, to lead, to mentor and to teach. I seek to write things worth reading and want to do things worth writing about. I enjoy (a) driving a fast car, (b) having intense conversations (c) teaching/mentoring, (d) reading and (e) being involved in productive activity. PERSONAL: I believe in cultivating and backing passionate people, innovation, and old fashioned good ideas. I love making human connections and spreading good ideas. I am strongly motivated to achieve in situations in which independence of thought and action are called for. PERSONAL GOALS: I want to live life vibrantly, to be as sharp as a tack until my last breath and to change the world by being me. My personal goal is to be fully engaged in life, to lead by example, to set high standards and to continue to amass firsthand experience and knowledge in all that interests me. PERSONALITY: I love fun and mischief. I relish absurdity. I have an irreverent, facetious and satiric disposition. I dread boredom. I have spent a lifetime reading. I have no bias against people who have lived successful and/or complicated lives. I write to release tension, to get things off my chest. SOCIAL MEDIA: I post articles on the "Gary S. Smolker Idea Exchange" blog at www.garysmolker.wordpress.com, and "Dude's Guide to Women's Shoes" at www.dudesguidetowomensshoes.com. I also post images and comments on Instagram @garyspassion. CONTACT INFORMATION: Gary Smolker, Smolker Law Firm, 16055 Ventura Blvd., Ste 525, Encino, California, 91436-2609, USA. Phone 1-818-788-7290, e-mail GSmolker@aol.com.

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